现代社会,家庭条件一天比一天好,孩子也是一天比一天大,手头日渐宽松起来的家长无不对孩子寄予了殷切的厚望,盼望自己的孩子将来有一天能够成龙成凤,在社会上赢得一席辉煌的生存地位。然而,你们可知道,各个孩子的资质不同、潜能不同, 生长环境与成长契机的各种不确定性,决定了孩子的发展终将有所差异,甚至是很大的差异。家长的殷殷厚望既是一种动力,更是一种压力,而且它还是一把双刃剑,使用不好,甚至会重伤自己孩子的那颗稚嫩的心灵。 In modern society, family conditions are better day by day. Children are also bigger and bigger. Parents who have gradually relaxed their hand have all placed high hopes on their children and hope that their children will one day be successful in the world and win glory in the society Survival status. However, as you can see, the various qualities, potentials, growth environments and growth opportunities of different children determine that children’s development will eventually be different and even very different. Parents’ earnest hopes are both a driving force and a pressure. It is also a double-edged sword that is not used well and will seriously injure the child’s tender heart.