不少家长在家庭教育中缺乏民主意识。体现在日常生活中,最明显的就是不给孩子发言权。看看您的周围,“小孩子懂什么”仍是不少家长的口头禅。有些家长,嘴里虽不见得这样说,心里却是这么想的,在言谈举止中常常不由自主地流露出来。教育家陶行知说:“若把小孩当小孩,你比小孩还小孩。”这么说可真不冤枉父母们。孩子再小,也是一个独立的 Many parents lack a sense of democracy in family education. Reflected in everyday life, the most obvious is not to give children the right to speak. Look around you, “children understand what” is still a lot of parents mantra. Some parents, though not necessarily said in his mouth, but my heart is so thought, often in the speech and deportment revealed involuntarily. Tao Xingzhi, an educator, said: “If a child is a child, you are still a child younger than a child.” Children are small, but also an independent