菁菁快满两岁了,爸爸妈妈一直很注意培养儿子的独立能力。这几个月来,孩子动作能力和智力发展有了明显进步,能独立走路,开始学用勺子自己舀饭吃,会把4块积木叠起来,与人交往的能力也加强了。可是,他对爸爸妈妈的依恋之情仍很强烈,自己单独活动一会儿,就会走近大人要抱一抱,吻一吻,他才高兴地又去自己玩。傍晚以后,他更是缠着大人陪他玩;他自小就养成独睡的习惯,而现在反倒要妈妈陪他睡了。如果不依他,他会委屈,甚至哭闹。爸爸妈妈该如何正确处理独立和依恋之间的关系? Jing Jing nearly two years old, Mom and Dad have been very attentive to cultivate their son’s independence. In recent months, children’s ability to move and mental development has made significant progress. Being able to walk independently and start to scoop their own food with a spoon will put the four blocks together and strengthen their ability to interact with others. However, his attachment to father and mother is still very strong, their own activities for a while alone, they will approached adults to hold a hug, kiss, he was happy to go play on their own. Later in the evening, he was more entangled in adult play with him; he developed the habit of sleeping alone when he was young, and now instead wants his mother to sleep with him. If you do not depend on him, he will be wronged, or even crying. Mom and Dad how to properly handle the relationship between independence and attachment?