别对人家的孩子指手划脚。有一次,我带着女儿去亲戚家,参加一场聚会。那天的场景是,一幢屋子里有十多个人,大大小小挤满了屋子。除去东家在屋里做菜,其余所有人都围坐在一起。一个不知谁家的姑娘,在她外婆的怂恿下给大家表演节目,唱了一首歌。大家礼节性地拍手。偏偏我女儿天性好玩,完全不喜欢这样的场合,自顾自在一边拔草玩耍。我一直很紧张这样的场合,倒不是说给长辈表演节目有任何问题,是孩子 Do not blame others for their children. Once, I took my daughter to relatives to attend a party. The scene of the day was that there were more than a dozen people in a house, crowded with people, large and small. Remove the owner cooking in the house, the rest of the people are sitting together. A girl who does not know who, under the instigation of her grandmother, gave a show to everyone and sang a song. Everyone courtesy clapped. But why my daughter nature is fun, do not like this kind of occasion at all, carefree pulling grass to play. I have been very nervous about such occasions, not to say that there are any problems with elders performing shows. It is a child