儿童自杀,骇人听闻14岁以下儿童的自杀较为罕见,然而,现今12～14岁年龄组的自杀率已达70年代的两倍,50年代的三倍之多。事实说明,这些情感表达能力差的儿童采取了自杀以及对父母和教师的挑衅行为产生的自伤性欲望。这欲望在某些人几乎是不可抗拒的,在其它人则不然。其原因似乎与父母对待孩子的态度有关。如果父母否定孩子的感情,拒绝为孩子提出某些建议,孩子就难以产生足够强的自我力量去解决情绪问题。自我否定压仰着儿童,使得儿童没有能力与别人建立同等的关系,或者产生应付各种情况的技巧。他们结束了自己毫无意义的感情,并认为自己没有生存的理由。如果说 Child suicide and appalling suicide among children under 14 years of age is rare. However, suicide rates in the 12-14 age group are now twice as high as in the 1970s and more than three times those in the 1950s. Facts show that these children with poor emotional expression have committed suicides and self-destructive appeals to their parents and teachers. This desire is almost irresistible in some people, but not in others. The reason seems to be related to the attitude of parents to children. If parents deny their children’s feelings and refuse to make certain suggestions for their children, it will be difficult for children to generate enough self-power to solve the emotional problems. Self-denial pressure children, making children have no ability to establish the same relationship with others, or have to deal with all kinds of skills. They ended their meaningless feelings and thought they did not survive. If