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6 影响婚姻因素之六——婚姻的成功与失败6.1 婚姻问题的现状一项历时15年的调查显示:20世纪在美国,夫妻缔结姻缘40年的时间里,有67%的初婚以离婚告终, 其中一半的离婚是发生在婚后头7年内;再婚的离婚率比初婚的高10%。人们研究了怎样使婚姻成功或失败,认为主要问题是:夫妇之间如何交流和如何解决冲突,并发掘了很多方法来应对婚姻障碍。苦涩的婚姻对夫妇双方及健康是有害的。西方人受其文化的影响,在处理婚姻问题时,大多考虑自己的多,而较少考虑对周围人,包括孩子、孙子、父母、姻亲、朋友以及整个社会受到的影响和伤害。研究人员曾对一群孩子从
6 Six Factors Affecting Marriage - Success and Failure of Marriage 6.1 The Status Quo of Marriage A 15-year survey shows that in the 20th century in the United States, 67% of first marriages ended in divorce in the 40 years of marriage between husband and wife, Half of the divorces occurred within the first seven years of marriage; the divorce rate for remarriage was 10% higher than for the first marriage. People have studied how to make marriages successful or unsuccessful, arguing that the main issues are how couples communicate and how to resolve conflicts, and find ways to deal with marital disorders. Bitter marriage is harmful to both the health of the couple. Affected by their culture, Westerners mostly consider themselves more when dealing with marital issues and less consider the impact and harms on the people around them, including children, grandchildren, parents, in-laws, friends and the community as a whole. Researchers had a group of children from