恩格斯是这样看待失恋以后的痛苦,他认为这是带有个人色彩痛苦中的“最高尚和最崇高的痛苦”。人生爱情之路是不平坦的,它象一叶征帆在大海中航行前进,有的能一帆风顺到达胜利的彼岸,也有的中途遇到风暴和暗礁而搁浅和覆舟,有的人能够正确对待失恋,逐渐恢复心理平衡,当爱情的伤痕愈合以后,再觅新友,坚信天涯何处无芳草,但也有人忍受不了这感情的煎熬,失魂落魄,一蹶不振,产生各种疾病,甚至轻生。 Engels treated the pain after romance in such a way that he considered it as “the noblest and the highest of suffering” with personal anguish. The path of love in life is not smooth, it sailed like a leaf in the sea, some sailed smoothly to reach the other side of the triumph, and some ran into storms and reefs while stranded and overwhelmed. Some people can correctly treat lovelorn , Gradually restore the psychological balance, when the wounds of love heal later, seek new friends, believe that End of the World where there is no grass, but some people can not stand the feelings of torment, distraught, sluggish, produce various diseases, and even suicide.