众所周知:父母是孩子的第一任老师,家庭则是孩子成长的摇篮。因此,家长的教育水平与教育态度、方法直接影响孩子的健康成长,况且现在家长对孩子的期望值过高,单从我们这里双休日和节假日等各种各样的培训班的爆满就足以证明。有的家长还美其名曰:“不能让孩子输在起跑线上!”然而有时候却是事与违愿,电视上、报刊上经常报道的某某孩子父母硬逼着孩子弹琴,而孩子是一点兴趣也没有,父母也许是要面子,或是真想孩子好,但是却没 As we all know: Parents are children’s first teacher, family is the cradle of children’s growth. Therefore, parents’ educational level and attitude toward education directly affect children’s healthy growth. Moreover, parents now expect their children to be too high. This is evidenced by the full scale of training courses such as weekends and holidays. Some parents also beautiful name: “can not let the children lose at the starting line! ” However, sometimes it is a matter of fact and on the contrary, often reported on television, newspapers, parents of certain children hard to force children to play the piano, and Children are not interested, parents may want to face, or really want to have children, but not