这是他们在宣泄自己的消极情绪。为什么非得用这种方式宣泄呢?说出来不好吗?说出来很好。语言宣泄远比粗暴行为的宣泄要文明。但是,用语言宣泄有个条件,他得有足够的词汇和表达能力。不具备这个条件,他可不就只好叫嚷、骂人、摔东西了!这说明,教孩子学会表达自己感情的词汇是保护孩子心理健康的一件大事。我的一位同事在给自己3岁的男孩嘟嘟写的日记里就有这样的例子:自从那日跟嘟嘟讲“怎样,在家没有小朋友,不好玩儿了吧”之后,他似乎体会到了什么叫寂寞无聊。他无所事事时便会走到我身边,说一句“妈妈,在家真不好玩儿”或者“现在不好玩儿”。于是我便明白了他寂寥的心情。试想,如若 This is their negative emotions venting themselves. Why do you have to use this way to vent? Say it is not good? Say it well. The language of venting is more civilized than the catharsis of crude acts. However, there is a condition of catharsis in language, he has enough vocabulary and ability to express. Without this condition, he had no choice but to shout, curse, and throw things! This shows that teaching children to express their feelings of the vocabulary is to protect children’s mental health is a major event. One of my colleagues wrote this diary in his beeping letter to his 3-year-old boy: Since that day he talked to the toot, “he seems to have no children at home, no fun.” Experience what is lonely boring. When he has nothing to do, he comes to me and says, “Mom, it’s really fun at home,” or “It’s not fun now.” So I understand his lonely mood. Imagine, Ruosuo