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对孩子严格要求是家庭教育的一条重要原则。但不是任何内容、任何形式的“严”都能收到令人满意的效果。怎样严格要求才能收到事半功倍的效果呢? 一、严而有理父母对孩子提出的要求要合乎情理,切忌滥用家长的权威。二、严而有方教育孩子要讲究方式方法,切忌简单、粗暴。三、严而有度父母要根据孩子的年龄特点、心理特征、个性差异把握好尺度,切忌随心所欲或脱离实际地过高要求。
Strict requirements for children is an important principle of family education. But not anything, any form of “strict” can receive satisfactory results. How strict requirements can receive the multiplier effect? First, the strict and rational parents put forward the requirements of children should be reasonable, should not abuse the authority of parents. Second, strict and well-educated Children should pay attention to ways and means, should not be simple and crude. Third, strict and degree Parents according to the child’s age characteristics, psychological characteristics, personality differences to grasp the scale, avoid arbitrary or from the actual high demand.