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如何化解婚姻危机?以下是一些社会学者、律师、心理医生提供的建议:当夫妻一方的生活规律或行为方式出现异常时,另一方要尽早查找原因,采取劝说的方法,把矛盾和问题处理在萌芽状态。一旦出现婚姻危机,头脑应当冷静下来。相信办法总比困难多。先不去考虑在婚姻中我们做错了什么,而是把注意力集中在过去我们做对了什么。不要采取说脏话、侮辱对方人格等方式,避免激化矛盾。努力去适应对方,而不要强行去改造对方。对方主动示好,适当的时候应予以积极回应。
How to resolve the crisis of marriage? The following are suggestions from some sociologists, lawyers and psychologists: When the living law or behavior of one spouse is abnormal, the other should find out the reason as soon as possible and take the method of persuasion to deal with the contradictions and problems. Budding state. In the event of marital crisis, the mind should be calm down. I believe the solution is always more difficult. Instead of thinking about what we did wrong in the marriage, we focused on what we did right in the past. Do not take bad language, insult each other’s personality, etc., to avoid intensifying conflicts. Efforts to adapt to each other, not to force to transform each other. The other party proactively demonstrated that it should respond positively when appropriate.