爱情之所以让人痛苦,婚姻之所以让人疲惫,是因为,不是每个人都会遇到对的人,不是每个人都遇到了对的人。遇到对的人,一切繁复的表相都会褪去,一切喧嚣的浮世都会静好,变得简单,只觉得,就是他了。然后现世安稳,岁月静好,感动常在,慢慢变老。最近身边越来越多的女生朋友结婚了,问到怎么最后就认定他做老公,答案出奇的大同小异——你会觉得,他不会走,不用耍任何心机和手段,他就是不会走。 The reason why love is painful and the reason why marriage is so exhausted is that not everyone encounters the right person, not everyone encounters the right person. Encounter right people, all complicated form will fade, all the hustle and bustle of the world will be quiet, easy, just think that is him. Then the world is stable, quiet years, moved often, slowly grow old. Recently, more and more girl friends got married and asked how to finally find him as a husband. The answers are surprisingly similar - you would think that he would not go, do not use any motivation and means, he just will not go.