问:前天,我带孩子去朋友家里做客,结果他把主人的玻璃杯打破了。我当即让他向主人道歉,但他怎么也不肯。我很生气,这不是一次两次了,他做错了事,总是不肯认错。请问,怎样才能让他有所改变呢?曹叶(河南商丘)答:孩子犯错后,很多家长希望他当下就能承认过错,这样的想法大可不必。 Q: The day before yesterday, I took my child to a friend’s house for a visit. As a result, he broke the master’s glass. I immediately let him apologize to the owner, but he did not want to refuse. I am very angry, this is not once and twice, he did something wrong, always refused to admit. May I ask, how can we make him change? Cao Ye (Shangqiu, Henan) Answer: Many parents hope that he can admit fault nowadays.