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每个人都渴望遇到完美的伴侣,拥有自己的亲密爱人。然而以下类型的人比较难走入亲密关系或者婚姻。一.悲情主义这类人对恋爱是疯狂的,对伴侣是渴求的,但在心态上却尽是千千结。最大的特点是喜欢钻牛角尖,总是偏执地认为自己的恋爱要轰轰烈烈,要经历千辛万苦,受尽种种考验折磨,因此总是制造悲剧情节,或者与一些烦恼重重的人谈恋爱。结果该分手的时候不分手,拖到最后还是要分手。或者恋爱时吵吵闹闹。分手时又藕断丝连。这也是一种情结上的自我虐待狂。二.博爱博爱不是花心,更不是建立多角恋爱,而是不懂男女
Everyone eager to meet the perfect partner, have their own intimate love. However, the following types of people are more difficult to enter intimacy or marriage. I. Sadism These people are crazy about love, they are desperate for their partners, but in the state of mind they do everything possible. The biggest characteristic is that they like to make a living. They always paranoidly think that their love should be vigorous, go through all the hardships and suffer all kinds of tests and tortures, so they always make tragic plot or fall in love with some troubled people. The results do not break up when the break up, dragged to the final or break up. Or when in love noisy. When broken up again Lian Lian. This is also a complex self-sadism. Second, fraternity and fraternity is not confined, not to establish multi-loving, but do not understand men and women