中学生早恋,已成为一个无法回避的话题。按一般成年人的理解:求学阶段,尤其是学习任务繁重的中学阶段,孩子需要把更多的精力投入到学习中去,十几岁的孩子弄出些卿卿我我、两情相悦的事情,实在不应该。但事情真的这么简单吗?我们成人尤其是老师和家长,是否应该自问:我们都曾从花季般的年龄走过,是不是也有过同样的“成长的烦恼”?将心比心,不要总站在成人的立场上,而应多站在孩子的角度上思考、判断问题,这样就会多 Puzzled middle school students, has become an unavoidable topic. According to the understanding of the average adult: study stage, especially in the heavy task of learning secondary school stage, children need to devote more energy to study, teenagers make some Qingqing me and I, both pleasing things, in fact Should not. But is it really that simple? Should we adults, especially teachers and parents, ask ourselves: have we all had the same age of “flower of growth” as we did before? Do not always stand in the heart Adult position, but should stand on the child’s point of thinking, to determine the problem, so that will be more