儿童心理的发展是一个由量变到质变的发展过程,在这个发展过程中有几个关键性转折时期,其中三岁左右和少年期(十一、十二岁的女孩或十三、十四岁的男孩)是两个重要的转折时期。这个时期的儿童要求独立地处理一些事情,反对成人过多的干预。如三岁左右的孩子常常说:“我自己……。”当成人把 The development of children’s psychology is a process of quantitative change to qualitative change. During this development, there are a few key turning points, of which three years of age and teenage years (eleven and twelve-year-old girls or thirteen and thirteen years old Boys) are two important turning points. Children in this period demanded that something be handled independently and against excessive intervention by adults. Such as children about three years old often say: “I myself .... ” When adults put