在甜蜜的恋爱过程中,恋人之间由于社会心理学上的“晕轮效应”,往往只看到对方的优点和长处,而看不列双方之间的矛盾和差异。一旦一块过日子,那些矛盾和差异就逐渐地显现出来了。比如,一方是百灵鸟型的,喜欢早睡早起,而另一方是夜猫子型的,到了晚上就精神抖擞;一方爱干净爱整洁,而另一方却不拘小 In the process of sweet love, due to the “halo effect” in social psychology, lovers often see only the advantages and strengths of each other, but can not see the contradictions and differences between the two parties. Once a piece of life, those contradictions and differences gradually emerged. For example, one party is a Lark-like, like to go to bed early and get up early, while the other is a night owl-type, to the night full of energy; one love clean neat love, while the other is informal