西方近代教育在19世纪末20世纪初提出:反对压抑学生,强调心理健康,培养学生自我解决问题的能力。孩子终究要脱离父母和学校,面对堪称残酷的社会现实,唯有让他们从小树立自主意识,形成独立的人格,才可以让我们这些教育者和家长释然。一、培养学生的自主精神要学会尊重学生培养学生的自主性素质,首先就要学会尊重学生。把他们看成是和我们平等的人,只有如此,才能让学生感到个体存在的价值,体会到别人对自己的需要,从而产生自主精神必备的条件——自信。作为一个教育工作的初学者,我始终坚持把自己 Western modern education was put forward in the late 19th and early 20th century: Oppose to depress students, emphasize mental health and develop students’ ability to solve problems by themselves. After all, the children have to be separated from their parents and schools. In the face of the brutal social reality, only by allowing them to establish their own self-awareness and form an independent personality can we relieve these educators and parents. First, cultivate students ’autonomy To learn to respect students’ independent quality of students, we must first learn to respect students. Think of them as being equal with us. Only in this way can we let students feel the value of individual existence, realize the needs of others and create the necessary conditions for self-determination - self-confidence. As a beginner in education, I always stick to myself