惩罚孩子,实际上剥夺了他从内心深层对自己错误行为的反省过程。事实上,我们需要的结果不是受罚,而是下次如何避免。即使有些爸妈接受了新的教育理论,也想放弃暴力的方式,可是在与宝宝相处的时候,往往又回到了老路上,仍然在用自己不喜欢的方式和宝宝说话。这让爸妈很沮丧,也很内 To punish the child actually deny him from the bottom of his heart the introspection of his wrong behavior. In fact, the result we need is not punishment but how to avoid it next time. Even though some parents accept the new theory of education, they also want to give up the violence. However, when they get along with their babies, they often return to their old ways and still talk to their babies in ways that they do not like. This makes parents very depressed, but also very internal