贾宝玉之奇异,除却他的出生、容貌、地位,最主要的是奇言怪行。那两首《西江月》,通常理解是对宝玉的贬责。笔者曾组织大学生“贾宝玉情感个性与现代情感教育”的专题讨论,在年轻大学生中有截然相反的意见。对这一形象的正确理解,首先要关注其情感问题。其实宝玉绝对不是《西江月》所说对生计、社会彻底不关心的人。所谓的乖张偏僻是异化了的社会舆论看正常的宝玉的观点,这种本末倒置的情况可见时代观念的错误,是所谓集体无意识的悲剧。 Jia Baoyu’s bizarre, except his birth, appearance, status, the most important is strange and strange. The two “Xijiang Yue”, usually understood as the gem of the blame. I have organized college students “Jia Baoyu emotional personality and modern emotional education,” the topic of discussion, young students in the opposite opinion. Correct understanding of this image, we must first pay attention to their emotional problems. In fact, gem is definitely not “Xijiang month” said to livelihoods, social completely do not care about people. The so-called misfits are remote alienated views of the public opinion to see normal Baoyu, this cart before the horse can be seen the wrong concept of the times, the so-called collective unconscious tragedy.