编辑同志: 我的孩子升入初中以后,我感到他和父母越来越疏远了。和同学在一起,他们有说有笑;但在家长面前,他却寡言少语。有人说,这是孩子慢慢变得对父母“无情”了。我不知道该怎样认识这一情况。河南梁瑞芳梁瑞芳同志: 初中生正处在年龄转折期——摆脱父母的“羁绊”而求“解放”的时期。这是少年期的一个特点。随着知识经验和独立活动能力的增长,到了少年期心理上便产生了一种强烈的“成人感”。这时他们不愿再过多依 Editor’s Comrade: After my child entered junior high school, I felt he was becoming more and more distant from his parents. Together with their classmates, they talked and laughed; but in front of their parents, he spoke a few words. Some people say that this is the child slowly become “ruthless” to the parents. I do not know how to recognize this situation. Comrade Liang Ruifang of Henan Liang Leifang: Junior high school students are in the turning-point of their age - getting out of their parents’ “fetters” and seeking “liberation”. This is a characteristic of adolescence. With the increase of knowledge experience and the ability of independent activities, a strong “sense of adult” arises in adolescence. At this time they do not want too much