人们习惯于以成败论英雄,而成与败的真正分水岭,在于能否在心理困境中自救。“耳不听心不烦”——心理自救策略之一:回避法。当人陷人心理困境时,最先也是最容易采取的自救策略便是回避法:回避、躲 People are accustomed to success or failure of the hero, and the true watershed of success and failure, lies in the psychological difficulties in self-help. “Do not listen to heart do not bother” - Psychological self-help strategy: avoidance law. When people are trapped in psychological difficulties, the first and most easily adopted self-help strategy is to avoid the law: to avoid, hide