一些人缘颇好的人总是能在同事遭到不幸时及时赶到现场,好言相慰,甚至不必说什么,拍拍对方的手,便传递了一份温情,最重要的是亲自到场。一般说来,同事之间不要打电话去慰问病人或丧失亲人的人,更不要用写信或用便条的方式。 Some people with good friends are always able to get to the scene in time when their colleagues are unlucky. They do not even have to say anything. They patted each other’s hands and conveyed a tender feeling. The most important thing is to be present in person. In general, do not call colleagues to condolences to patients or loved ones, let alone write letters or use notes.