读者来信从我十岁到现在,爸爸一直间歇着有外遇对象,妈妈不说,但心里猜疑,把所有的矛盾和烦恼都跟我说,希望我能让爸爸的注意力转移到我们身上。可是一切努力都毫无用处,爸爸挑明不想跟她过了,但不会离婚。他俩就这样一直僵持着、诋毁着,拿最恶毒的语言攻击对方。我也劝过我妈离婚,可她一 From the age of 10, my father has been intercourse with an affair for a long time. My mom does not say it, but my heart suspects that I have all the contradictions and annoyances with me and I hope I can get my dad’s attention to us. However, all efforts are useless, my father did not want to pick her out, but not divorced. The two of them have been stalemate, slander, attack the other with the most vicious language. I also advised my mother divorced, but she one