常常有人说我女儿是个懂事的孩子,独立性强,整天笑眯眯的,很快乐。其实,她小时候是个“哭煞猫”,也许是我们让她学会选择、学会决断的一些做法改变了她。琳琳出生后,两家大人都极疼她,百般呵护。久而久之,我发现,琳琳特别脆弱,特别任性,依赖性特别强。如玩具掉地上要大人捡,吃饭要大人喂,玩要大人陪……否则,便呜呜大哭。于是,我们都叫她“哭煞猫”。怎么改变这只“哭煞猫”呢?左思 Some people often say that my daughter is a sensible child, strong independence, smiling all day, very happy. In fact, when she was a child, she was a cry-cat. Perhaps she changed her ways of making her choose and learning to make decisions. Linlin was born, two adults are very hurt her, all sorts of care. Over time, I found that Lynn was particularly vulnerable, particularly capricious and particularly dependent. Such as toy off the ground to adults to pick up, eat to adults to feed, play to adults to accompany ... Otherwise, he whining cry. So, we all call her “crying cats.” How to change this only “crying cat”? Zuo Si