批评是家长教育孩子的常用手段。但是,家长在使用这一手段时,常收到不同效果。一位母亲,一次从窗外窥视正在上课的女儿,见其低头弄脚。下课后,母亲厉声问女儿:“你上课老弄脚丫,怪不得考不上一中! ”我上课老弄脚丫?“女儿不服。母亲火了,便当众骂女儿。女儿也不肯示弱,与母亲对骂,发展到母女互相揭短。 Criticism is a common way for parents to educate their children. However, parents often receive different results when using this method. A mother, one from the window peep is the daughter of the class, see it dumbfounded. After class, the mother snapped her daughter: ”You get the old school feet, no wonder a test is not a! “ I get the old school feet? ”Daughter refused to accept the mother fire, then publicly scold her daughter. Willing to show weakness, scolding mother and developing mother and daughter to expose each other short.