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在日本家庭里,父亲是绝对的权威。正是因为习惯了服从,日本人才成为最守纪律、最富于集体主义精神的民族。如果孩子犯了错误,日本父母会采取各种措施惩罚孩子,比如取消孩子外出游玩的计划,让孩子饿上一顿,或者进行适度的体罚,等等。但是,如果孩子在公共场所犯错,父母一般不会当众责罚孩子。筑波是一位两岁男孩的妈妈。像大多数的日本父母一样,她认为在公共场所责罚孩子是不符合礼仪规范的行为,而且也会损害孩子的自尊。她会在回家之后再对孩子的表现进行点评,或者给孩子一些惩罚。
In Japanese families, the father is the absolute authority. It is precisely because of accustomed obedience that Japanese people have become the most disciplined and most collectivist nation. If a child makes a mistake, Japanese parents will take various measures to punish their children, such as canceling their children’s plans to go out for a play, getting their children hungry, or exercising moderate corporal punishment. However, if the child makes mistakes in public places, parents generally will not reprimand the children in public. Tsukuba is a two-year-old boy’s mother. Like most Japanese parents, she believes punishing children in public places is not in line with the norms of etiquette, and it can harm children’s self-esteem. She will review the child’s performance after returning home, or give the child some punishment.