孩子小时,喜欢玩小刀、玻璃之类危险的东西,数次劝教都无济于事。有一天,趁孩子不小心被玻璃划破手指鲜血直滴之机,我边上药边吓唬孩子说:“你再这样玩儿,就可能得破伤风,就可能要送命!”果然,“怕死”的小儿便乖乖听话,从此不再乱去触碰那些玻璃、小刀之类的什物了。的确,很多的时候,善意的“威胁和惩戒”,可以大大地增强对孩子的说服力,能起到单凭苦口婆心的规劝所起不到的作用。当然,善意的威胁和惩戒是需要掌握一定的技巧的。要有警戒线。善意的威胁和惩戒,不能临时出“政策”,应该寓教育于平时之中,不要等孩子犯了错误以后,再临时抱佛脚,劈里啪啦将孩子骂一通打一顿,那样虽然是出了气,解了恨,但会让孩子感到无所适从,于孩子的成长毫无裨益。要使威胁和惩戒起到应有的作用,就要“功夫”下在平时,建立起一套必要的规章制度,为孩子划定“红绿线”,让孩子明白哪些该做, Childhood hours, like to play a knife, glass and other dangerous things, several times to persuade are of no avail. One day, while the child accidentally being scratched by the glass of blood fingers straight down the glass of the machine, I scared the edge of the drug side of the child said: “You play it again, you may get tetanus, you may have to die!” Sure enough, Dead “children obediently obedient, no longer chaos to touch those glasses, knives and the like. Indeed, in many cases, goodwill ”threats and disciplinary actions“ can greatly enhance their persuasiveness towards their children and can only serve as an excuse not only to exhort their best wishes. Of course, goodwill threats and discipline require certain skills. Have a cordon. Goodwill threats and disciplinary measures can not be temporary ”policy“ should be included in education in peacetime, do not wait for the child to make a mistake, then embrace, crackling the child curse a pass, so that although out of breath, solution Hate, but will make children feel at a loss, no benefit in the child’s growth. To make threats and punishments play their due role, it is necessary to establish a set of necessary rules and regulations under ”Kung Fu“ and set a ”red and green line" for children so that children can understand what to do,