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二十多年前,我们曾经激烈地批评过我们的孩子,那种批评已经到了这样—种程度:我们似乎已经认定我们的孩子将来是绝对成不了“气候”的了。因为他们是“独生子女”。一个未经过任何社会实践检验的,纯习惯性的思维方式告诉我们:“独生子女”都会受到娇惯,受娇惯的孩子都不会成“大气候”。因此,我们的孩子大多数将会成为自私、任性、孤僻甚至软弱无能的一代。他们将是中国“垮掉的一代”。中国的“太阳落了”,至少我们的孩子不再会成为富于朝气的“早晨八九点钟
Twenty years ago, we had criticized our children vigorously. That criticism has come to such a degree that we seem to have determined that our children will never become “climate” in the future. Because they are “only children.” A purely habitual way of thinking that has not been tested in any social practice tells us that “only children” are spoiled and spoiled children do not become “grand.” As a result, most of our children will be selfish, self-willed, withdrawn and even weak. They will be China’s “beaten generation.” China’s “sun goes down,” at least our children will no longer be full of vigor. "Eight o’clock in the morning