近几年,我以婚礼纪实摄像师的身份参加了近百场婚礼,真可谓双手喜糖累累,浑身沾满喜气,也顺便掌握了一些鲜为人知的第一手材料,越来越看清了那些欢天喜地的婚礼背后,暗涌着的令人担忧的问题。 一、洞房花烛串了味 自古以来,男婚女嫁一直被人们当成人生中的头等大事,即使节衣缩食也要庆贺一番,这本无可非议。问题是在婚礼上,新郎新娘的欣喜程度,与婚礼的隆重程度出现了越来越大的反差。 In recent years, I took part in nearly a hundred weddings as a wedding photojournalist. I am really happy with both hands and full of festivity. I have also mastered some little-known first-hand materials and I have seen them more and more Behind the delightful wedding, the worrying problem of the darkness. First, the bridal chamber has spent a string of flavors Since ancient times, male and female marriages have been regarded as the top priority in the life of people, even if the festival should be celebrated, it is beyond reproach. The problem is at the wedding, the bride and groom’s level of delight, and the grandness of the wedding there has been a growing contrast.