Q和老公发生冲突时,为什么我总是想战胜他?A生活中无处不可学习,不可自我成长。其中一个学习和成长方式就是问自己问题,有时候我们需要在一个问题下深入探索,你已经开了一个好头了,也许你可以继续问自己“赢他,可以满足到我内心的什么需要”?“如果一直只能是我赢他输,会对我们的关系带来什么样的影响”?“如果那是我不想要的影响和结果,那我需要做些什么样的改变”?通过问自己这些问题来厘清问题的关键。 Q and her husband in conflict, why I always want to beat him? A life can learn everywhere, not self-growth. One of the ways to learn and grow is to ask yourself questions. Sometimes we need to explore deeply under one question. You’ve already got a good start. Maybe you can continue to ask yourself, “Win him and meet my inner needs ”?“ ”If it has always been my win, it will affect our relationship.“ ”If that’s the impact and result I do not want then what do I need to do Change? "? By asking yourself these questions to clarify the crux of the problem.