一个人处在孩提时代,其思想性格还远远没有定型,对外界事物反映敏捷,可塑性很强。所以,孩子任性的程度取决于孩子的成长环境。幼儿的成长环境,主要是家庭环境。孩子成长的家庭环境主要有三种。第一种是孩子同其他家庭成员地位相等的家庭环境。表现为:尊老爱幼,“养”“教”并举,在对与错的面前人人平等,能够开展批评和自我批评,对孩子注意言 A person in childhood, his ideological character is still far from stereotypes, the external things reflect the agility, strong plasticity. Therefore, the degree of children’s willfulness depends on the child’s growth environment. Children’s growth environment, mainly the family environment. There are three main types of family environment in which children grow up. The first is the family environment in which children have the same status as other family members. The performance is as follows: respecting the old and loving yourselves, “raising ” “teaching ” simultaneously, equality in the face of right and wrong, be able to carry out criticism and self-criticism of children’s attention