作为家长,尤其是独生子女的家长,关爱和呵护自己的孩子,无可厚非,人之常情。问题是,我们到底应该如何关爱和呵护孩子。例如在一些夏令营活动中,我们中国孩子的家长中,出现了种种溺爱、庇护孩子的现象。譬如在孩子负重拉练过程中,不自禁地有意减轻孩子负重,更有甚者干脆把孩子负重物甩上自己的汽车带走……舍不得让孩子吃点苦,受点累。 As parents, especially the only child’s parents, care and care of their children, nothing wrong, human nature. The question is, exactly how we should care for and care for our children. For example, in some summer camp activities, among the parents of Chinese children, there are various phenomena of spoiling and sheltering their children. For example, in the course of weight-bearing exercises, children can not help but intentionally relieve the burden of children. What is more, they simply take the children’s weight-bearing goods onto their own cars and take them away.