失败是人类生活的一部分,每个人都有权失败。多数的父母竭尽全力要么防止孩子失败,要么为了保护孩子,不让他们知道自己的失败。父母采用的一种方法是降低标准。例如某个母亲会把孩子手忙脚乱摆放的桌子说成是“完美无缺”,即使桌子不平,摇摇晃晃。还有一种方法是推卸责任。比如 Failure is part of human life and everyone has the right to fail. Most parents make every effort to either prevent their children from failing or to protect their children from their own failures. One way that parents adopt is to lower the standard. For example, a mother may describe a table where children are in a huddle as “perfect,” even if the table is uneven. There is another way is to shirk its responsibility. such as