“距离产生美”。这句话通常是用在恋人之间。其实,它同样适用于夫妻之间、亲子之间、亲朋之间,甚至三代人之间。在中国的传统文化中,三代同堂、四代同堂是一个特别让人羡慕的事情。这种文化有其深厚的历史、经济、文化、社会渊源。但在这样的大家庭里,每一对夫妻不是真正意义上的家庭。因为他们既没有财权,也没有支配权,甚至没有发言权。小家庭 “Distance produces beauty ”. This sentence is usually used between lovers. In fact, it applies equally between husband and wife, between parents and children, between relatives and friends, and even between three generations. In China’s traditional culture, three generations of one generation and four generations of generations are a particularly enviable affair. This culture has its profound historical, economic, cultural and social origins. But in such a big family, every couple is not a real family. Because they have neither financial nor control power, or even no right to speak. Small family