什么是心中的“结”?我的粗浅理解是:“结”是人们内心深处存在的矛盾和问题。“结”是客观存在的,不过因人而异,老年人心中的“结”很多,一时难以细述,这里只想略述一下较普遍而又十分迫切需要解开的两个“结”:一是老年人给子女留下什么?二是怎样对待生与死?这两个“结”已困扰了许多老年人,确实有必要解开它,否则易得抑郁症,根本无法快乐度晚年。近来细读《老友》,她帮助我们解开了上述两个“结”。2013年第5期汪小艳的《给子女留什 What is the heart of “knot”? My superficial understanding is: “knot ” is the contradictions and problems that exist in people’s hearts. “Knot ” is an objective reality, but varies from person to person, the elderly “knot ” a lot, sometimes difficult to elaborate, just want to give a brief overview of the more common and very urgent need to unlock two “Knot ”: First, what is left by the elderly to the children? Second, how to deal with the birth and death? These two knots have plagued many elderly people, and it is indeed necessary to untie it. Illness, simply can not happily late life. Recently read “old friend”, she helped us to solve these two “knot ”. 2013 No. 5 Wang Xiao Yan’s "to children left