我离家在外工作,每年只有一次回家的机会,总想借着过年多给父母些钱。但在钱的数额上,我和妻子发生了分歧,她觉得我们过得也不宽裕,表个心意就行了。但我觉得,一年就回一次,应该多给些。我们俩为此大吵了一架,甚至还冷战了好几天。我该怎么办?需要去说服她吗?排在夫妻吵架原因前三名的分别为:家务分配、子女教育和对待各自父母的 I work outside my home, only once a year to go home, always want to spend more money to their parents through the New Year. However, in the amount of money, my wife and I have a disagreement, she felt we did not pass too well, a table on the line. But I think it should be given back once a year. We both had a big fight for this and even a few days after the Cold War. What should I do? Need to persuade her? The reasons why the couple quarrel in the top three are: housework distribution, children’s education and treatment of their parents