不可否认,良好的师生关系对于教师的管理和教学以及学生的学习来说都是至关重要的。作为一个中年教师,我更是深有体会。本文从学生和教师两方面分析了中学生心理和思维的发展特点以及老师该从哪些方面了解学生、理解学生,了解自己和怎样与学生相处。 Admittedly, a good teacher-student relationship is crucial to the management and teaching of teachers and the learning of students. As a middle-aged teacher, I am even more experienced. This paper analyzes the development characteristics of middle school students’ psychology and thinking from the aspects of students and teachers, as well as the aspects that teachers should know about students, understand students, understand themselves and how to get along with students.