我们时常可以听到家长们如此的抱怨:我的孩子不愿让打听学校里的事情。我的孩子不知为什么常把他房间的门反锁上。我的孩子出去时不愿和家人打招呼。我越来越不知孩子在想些什么……面对发生在千百个家庭里的这一切,母亲们则表现出深深的困惑。往日的乖女儿乖儿子不知何故竟变得如此不可理喻。岂不知,这些少男少女们的种种表现,正是与家长们施行对抗的一种方式,心理学称之为“自我封闭”。无疑,这种拒绝帮助、拒绝教育的“封闭”对青少年的身 Often we hear parents complain that my child does not want to inquire about things in school. My child, I do not know why, often locked his room door. My child does not want to greet his family when he goes out. Increasingly, I do not know what my children are thinking ... Mothers face deep confusion in the face of all this happening in hundreds of families. Someone who used to be a good daughter in the past has somehow become so unreasonable. Do you not know, these boys and girls are all kinds of performance, it is with the parents of a way of confrontation, psychology called “self-enclosed”. Undoubtedly, this refusal helps, refusing to educate the “closed” body of teenagers