每个人在不同阶段的需求不同,幸福的感觉也就不一样。在家长眼里,现在的孩子不愁吃、不愁穿,家里的一切都以孩子为中心,孩子非常幸福。回想自己的童年,吃穿玩都无法与现在的孩子相比,还得帮父母下地干活儿,相比之下,现在的孩子简直到了天堂。然而,事实并非如此,在咨询中,我经常会碰到这样的案例:孩子不快乐,幸福感非常低,甚至有的 Everyone in different stages of different needs, the feeling of happiness is not the same. In the eyes of parents, children now worry about eating, worry about wear, everything at home are child-centered, the child is very happy. Recall that my childhood, eat and play are not compared with the current children, have to work under the help of their parents, by contrast, the child is almost heaven. However, this is not the case. In consultation, I often encounter such a case: the child is not happy, the happiness is very low, and even some