萧红在临终前,仍于病榻上感慨自己的不甘:“留那半部《红楼》与别人说去吧。”她的执念让她一生都充满了不甘与不平,至死也未休。正如顾城在那首小诗《执者失之》中所说:“当你什么也不想要的时候,一切如期而来。”当一个人抱着执念不肯松手,执拗地想成为他人时,也就失去了自己生命的本真。王夫之曾说:“清风有意难留我,明月无心自照人。”也许干什么都需要 Xiao Hong before dying, still feeling sick on his sick bed unwilling: “leaving half of the” Red House “to go with others. ” Her obsession for her life is full of unwilling and uneven, never to die . As Gu Cheng said in his poem “The Lost Director:” “When you do not want anything, everything comes on schedule.” “When a man holds his ideas and refuses to let go, he stubbornly wants to become When others, they also lose the true nature of their lives. Wang Fuzhi once said: ”The breeze intends to leave me, the moon does not have the heart to take care of yourself."