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一、培养孩子有主见。家长应该让孩子有自己独特的见解,至于你或其他人是否喜欢并不重要。如果你让孩子做什么事都依赖于你,需要你的同意、允诺或是遵守常规,按你设计的生活方式去生活,那么,孩子创造的热情就被你窒息了。当然鼓励孩子有主见,并不意味着过分宽容和不负责任,而是鼓励孩子去追求、探索,用自己的方法接触事物。如:对1～2岁孩子,允许他们编造游戏;对3～6岁孩子,可以让他们自己编自己的故事。自己选择自己的朋友。二、不要给弦子贴标签。家长不应给孩子贴上标签.如“小宝贝”、“太上皇”,“艺术家”、“懒家伙”、“笨蛋”等等。很多家长让孩子拥有太多的标签,这
First, develop children with assertiveness. Parents should let their children have their own unique opinions, and it does not matter as to whether you or others like it. If you let your child depend on you for everything you do, need your approval, promise, or routine, and live the lifestyle you design, the child’s enthusiasm for creation is suffocated. Of course, encouraging children to have assertions does not mean being overly tolerant and irresponsible. Rather, they encourage children to pursue, explore and contact things in their own ways. Such as: for 1 to 2-year-old children, allowing them to make games; for 3 to 6-year-old children, allowing them to compile their own story. Choose your own friend. Second, do not label the string son. Parents should not label children, such as “Baby”, “Too Wong”, “Artist”, “Lazy Guy”, “Stupid” and so on. Many parents let children have too many labels, this