六十年代出生的中国商人们思想经历了一次次的政治浪潮冲击,爱情观、婚姻观被社会现实所影响,很多人在排斥中接受着,在放弃中坚守着,在混乱中警醒着。这也许是他们这一代回避不掉的命运。高考制度的恢复,对爱情文化根基的冲击是显而易见的。那时的年轻人之间开始认为男女之间的“共同语言”是非常重要的,谈理想、谈人生几乎是每对情侣开始交往的必备话题。但最后的焦点往往离不开工作单位性质和个人才能。 The Chinese merchants who were born in the 1960s experienced a wave of political waves. The concept of love and marriage was influenced by social reality. Many people accepted it in rejection, kept abandoning it, and watched in confusion. This may be the fate of their generation. The restoration of the college entrance examination system has an obvious impact on the cultural foundation of love. At that time, young people began to think that the “common language” between men and women is very important. Talking about ideals and talking about life is almost an indispensable topic for every couple to start socializing. But the final focus is often due to the nature of the work unit and individual talent.