这是一个一对一的个案督导场景:咨询师正在学习精神分析的咨询技术;督导是一名经验丰富的精神分析治疗师。一坐下,咨询师就迫不及待地开口:“我想问一下,如果在咨询室外遇到来访者,该怎么办呢?”督导:“你能具体谈谈吗?”咨询师:“我那天在咨询室附近的餐厅吃饭,当时我吃得非常匆忙,因为接下来还有咨询。这时我的一个来访者发现了我,他端着他的饭走过来,和我坐在一张桌子上。我不知该如何面对他,所以等他开口说话。但也不想太让他尴尬,所以他问我问题 This is a one-to-one case supervision scenario: the counselor is learning the psychoanalytic counseling skills and the supervisor is an experienced psychoanalyst. When I sit down, the counselor can not wait to speak: ”I would like to ask, if you encounter outside the consultation of visitors, what to do?“ Supervisor: ”Can you talk about it?“ ”Consultant: "I had dinner in the dining room near the consultation room that day when I ate very hasty because there was still an inquiry when one of my visitors found me and he came over with his meal and sat with me I did not know how to deal with him, so he spoke, but he did not want to embarrass him too much, so he asked me the question