任性是当今独生子女的‘多发病’,家长要杜绝该‘病’的发生,必须从小节着手,防微杜渐。 孩子任性的‘病灶’,大多形成于周岁之前,作为最接近孩子的妈妈,在这一阶段要注意孩子个性的形成。从表面看,尽管该时期婴儿尚缺乏判断是非的能力,但他可通过妈妈的神态察觉到你是高兴还是生气。而孩子在这一朦胧阶段的‘过错’,却最易被妈妈所忽视,或者认为孩子不懂事,而舍不得责备。 在婴儿刚能用手抓东西吃时,常爱把手里抓着的饼干、馒头之类随手扔在地上。第一次扔时,也许 Self-willed is the “frequently-occurring disease” of the one-child children of today. Parents should stop the occurrence of this disease and must start from the section to prevent them from getting in the balance. Children’s headstrong ’lesions’, mostly formed before the age of years, as the closest to the child’s mother, at this stage should pay attention to the formation of children’s personality. On the face of it, although the baby still lacked the ability to judge right and wrong during this period, he could find out whether you were happy or angry through his mother’s demeanor. The child’s mistakes in this phase of ’fault’, but most easily overlooked by the mother, or think the child is naive, but reluctant to blame. When the baby can just grasp things by hand, often love to grab the hands of cookies, bread and the like readily thrown to the ground. When throwing for the first time, maybe