易中天教授在《闲话中国人》一书中说,人生有三“得”:沉得住气、弯得下腰、抬得起头。人生在世,必须沉得住气。沉得住气,是事业的开始;沉得住气,是成熟的标志。有时候,沉得住气,需要韬光养晦、高瞻远瞩,才能有所作为。有的人沉不住气,特别是面对挫折、遭遇逆境的时候,他们常 Professor Yi Zhongtian said in his book “Gossip Chinese,” that there are three things in life: “Depression”, being calm, bending down, and turning up. Life is alive and well. Soul, is the beginning of the cause; indulge, is a sign of maturity. In some cases, it takes a lot of time to live up to the sky and need a long-term perspective to make a difference. Some people can not stand still, especially in the face of setbacks and adversities, they often