本期特邀嘉宾主持——中国科学院心理研究所研究员、北京医科大学医学心理教研室主任、著名医学心理学家李心天教授: 社会是由人组成的,人与人之间的关系是否和谐直接影响着社会能否稳定和健康地发展。小到夫妻两人组成的家庭,大到由无数个家庭组成的国家都要讲究人际关系,处理好了,就能国泰民安,人人过着幸福美满的生活。可见“两人社会”的夫妻关系是涉及社会稳定的国家大事,人人不能等闲视之。 夫妻关系是家庭稳定的基石,两个人由于性格、爱好、文化修养、生活习惯和人生追求各不相同,对组成爱情的情爱和性爱要求、对自己骨肉养育的看法和与他人交往应持的态度也有差异,所以协调好双方间的关系极为重点。夫妻对某一问题、某一事件的观点有时可能百分之百的一致,有时却大相径庭。生活中出现冲突和矛盾是经常的,很难避免的。但真有感情的夫妻自然会很快地交流思想,化干戈为玉帛,不断增进爱情的深度。周总理和邓大姐是一对公认的模范夫妻,他们所提出的“八互原则”即:“互敬、互爱、互信、互帮、互慰、互勉、互让、互谅”,是搞好夫妻关系的信条。夫妻和睦,家庭温馨,夫妻双方都能从对方得到强有力的情感支持,这样可促进身体抗御疾病和适应外界活动的能力,提高思维、记忆以及分析和解决问题的能力,使全身? Current guest guest host - Chinese Academy of Sciences Institute of Psychology researcher, Beijing Medical University Medical Psychology Department director, famous medical psychologist Professor Li Xintian: society is composed of people, whether the relationship between people is a direct impact on the harmony Can the society develop steadily and healthily? A small family consisting of two couples, large enough to countless families composed of countries should pay attention to interpersonal relationships, handled properly, we can peace and prosperity, everyone live a happy life. It can be seen that the “husband and wife relationship in the” two-person society “is a major national issue involving social stability and that everyone can not afford to ignore it. The relationship between husband and wife is the cornerstone of family stability. Due to their different personalities, hobbies, cultural accomplishments, living habits and life pursuits, the two people have different attitudes towards the love and sexuality that make up love, their views on fostering their own flesh and their relationships with others There are also differences, so it is very important to coordinate the relationship between the two parties. Couples on a certain issue, the views of an event may be one hundred percent consistent, sometimes very different. Conflicts and conflicts in life are frequent and hard to avoid. However, the real couple will naturally exchange ideas quickly, turn things into good things, and constantly improve the depth of love. Premier Zhou and sister Deng are a pair of recognized model couples. The ”eight mutual principles“ proposed by them are: ”Mutual respect, mutual love, mutual trust, mutual assistance, mutual comfort, mutual encouragement, mutual accommodation and mutual understanding." The creed of the relationship between husband and wife. Harmony between husband and wife, family warmth, both spouses get strong emotional support from each other, which can promote the body’s ability to resist disease and adapt to outside activities, improve thinking, memory, and the ability to analyze and solve problems, so that the whole body?