古希腊哲人彼亚斯说:“一个不能承受不幸的人是真正不幸的。”彼翁说了相同意思的话:“不能承受不幸本身就是一种巨大的不幸。”为什么这样说呢? 首先,不幸之为不幸,是因为它会对人造成伤害。一个能够承受不幸的人,实际上是减小了不幸对自己的杀伤力,尤其是不让它伤及自己的生命核心。相反,一个不能承受的人,同样的不幸就可能使他元气大伤,一蹶不振, 甚至因此毁灭。因此,看似遭遇了同样的不幸,结果是完全不一样的。 The ancient Greek philosopher Piez said: “A person who can’t bear the misfortune is truly unfortunate.” Giovanni said the same thing: “Unable to bear misfortune is itself a huge misfortune.” Why do you say this? First of all, unfortunately It is unfortunate because it can cause harm to people. A person who can bear the misfortune is actually reducing the lethality of his misfortune, especially not letting it hurt the core of his life. On the contrary, an unbearable person, with the same misfortune, may cause him to suffer a great deal of grief, fail, or even destroy it. Therefore, it looks like we have suffered the same misfortune. The result is totally different.