一直以来,父母那些温暖的碎碎念,是我们没有成人之前的负担,是我们懂事之后的牵挂,是他们离开之后温暖的念想。我们可以选择朋友、爱人,却唯独不能选择家庭和出身,于是很多子女和父母的沟通之道就成了代沟的成因。很多父母觉得,我懂,所以我不希望你吃苦、走弯路。很多子女觉得,我更懂,所以我才要自己去试试看,不撞南墙不回头。可能每个人都会有这样一个阶段,就是非常刻意甚至别扭地强调“自我”的存在,而且希望自己的意见被尊重和采纳。所以那 All the while, the warm, crumbling thoughts of our parents are the burden we had before we were adults, the care we had after we were sensible, and the warmth we had after they left. We can choose friends, lovers, but we can not only choose family and background, so many children and parents have become the reason for the generation gap. Many parents think I understand, so I do not want you to endure hardships and detours. Many children feel that I know better, so I have to try it myself, do not hit the south wall does not look back. Perhaps everyone will have such a stage, that is, very deliberate or even awkward to emphasize the existence of “self ”, and hope that their opinions are respected and adopted. So that