其实,迟到并不只是来晚了那么简单,迟到的背后往往有许多心理因素在推动——延迟面对:对于一些不想面对的场景,迟到可以起到缓冲作用,因为迟到就可以晚一点儿进入那个不愿面对的情境。权力竞争:时间的约定本身就是一个设定,需要双方共同遵守。但是对于一些想要突破设定的人来说,按时就像是对设定的屈服,会感觉自我受损,所以会在无意识中,用迟到的方式与这种设定抗衡,来感受自己的权力大过设定,从而觉得自己是重要的。 In fact, the late arrival is not just so late as late, often behind a lot of psychological factors to promote - to delay the face: for some scenes do not want to be late can be a buffer, because late can be a little late Into the unwilling to face the situation. Power competition: the time agreement itself is a setting, both parties need to abide by. But for some people who want to break through the set, on time is like yield to set, will feel self-damaged, it will unconsciously, in a late manner to contend with this setting, to feel their own Power is greater than setting, so that you feel important.